So, I love living with my boyfriend. He makes me happier than I ever thought I could be. My job situation is difficult, and I had the entire week off this week. I've been alone in the house all week. I've tried to keep myself busy, I EVEN BAKED A PIE. I NEED TO FIND FRIENDS AROUND HERE!
And then it hit me...
Without the college atmosphere, I don't know how to make friends normally. I'm not going to ask the cashier at the gas station if she wants to go shopping some time (even though I can see us being friends). It's not like we don't go out because we do but all the girls at the bar seem kind of skanky... if you know what I mean not people I really want to be friends with.
Life was so much easier when you could ask someone to borrow their crayon and then we're bffs the next day.
napoli barcelona
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I'm with you all the way! I moved in with my boyfriend, now husband, about three years ago, and I moved to another state to be with him and we have since moved to Canada together. I would KILL for a normal girls' night out with my FRIENDS--I've had some with acquaintances and "friends" here, but it's just not the same. Keep baking pies and watch a lot of Golden Girls. The Golden Girls always help me get through it! :)
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Thats why I dread the thought of moving in with a boyfriend. I live with roommates so I still go out all the time, i feel like I wouldnt if I lived with my boyfriend.
I miss the college atmosphere also and I'm 28.
Nice blog.
...Yeah the bf and I had a lengthy discussion about girls night out...There WILL be a nice post about that later today.... hehe
It seems like ever few years I go through this "thing" where I realize that I want different friends. I know, it sounds horrible. I think its because over the years you realize what you want, and need out of people and sometimes people either just don't deliver or aren't able to give you what you need.
Example: I want some friends who want to do weekly bowling, or trivia nights. I could also use some single, straight friends, but that's just me.
You and I can be friends :D Move to Jersey =P
Well My sister is in Jersey, shes living there for the summer with her friend from Philly... but Philly is all the closer I've been to Jersey... but I would enjoy bowling AND trivia game nights (I'm "that" girl who always has the useless information)
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